Party like a Rockstar?

Interesting weekend.
Thursday night held prospect. Managed to get into the dance club with no big hassle, then after being there for an hour and a half, all of a sudden, there's a flashlight in my face. I think to myself, this is interesting, could this be my first kicking out of a club experience? I am not even drunk. So, I follow the insistent bouncer to the 'hallway of interrogation' and am confronted by two more bouncers. They ask for my ID. of course. I should have figured that out. This happens when you live in Victoria and look like you are 15. So, I hand it over and they investigate it and ask me various questions about my address and such. Finally, they are convinced I am of the appropriate age to be engaging in the activities of the club. I wandered back in, and thought to myself, interesting, never had this happen before.

Friday night.
Went on a date. He made me steak and potatoes and salad. Apparently this is an unusual thing to happen according to the girl that lives downstairs. I brought wine. It was classy. So as nice as all that was, and it was nice. and so is he. he's really nice. and he likes me, so thats nice too. I couldnt help but notice that even though I gave him plenty of time to converse and talk with me, I was still leading the conversation the whole time. There was plenty of silent spots as well. Perhaps it wasn't such a bad thing the tv was on.
After dinner his roomates returned to save us from the conversational abyss and the evening continued in a nice, comfortable sort of way with me killing them all at card games. I went home after a little bit of the comedy channel and it hit me.
I have nothing in common with this guy.
Too bad I was already committed to see him the next night for a party. I went to this party (brought a friend-good thinking on my part) dressed like a rockstar. After a few drinks, this supposed date of mine decides it is a good idea to try and put the moves on. Again, the realization struck me. He's Boring. So i called it quits, grabbed my slightly inebriated friend and made my way back to campus in a cab.
So here is my advice. Guys, try to talk to a girl, maybe engage in conversation before making any sort of move, inebriated or not.